you have a problem with self esteem if:

1. your own self esteem is built by trashing others';
2. you cant think of anything special about yourself when you don't compare yourself with others;
3. you judge the world around you and think you are better than the rest of the world;
4. when you dramatize events in your head and act up on it in real life to get more attention;
5. your friends treat you horribly but you can't see it for yourself or worse you see it but think it is OK;
6. you have sex to make someone love you even when you re not ready;
7. you act as though you own the world but can't take even the slightest criticism in the right spirit;
8. you read this and feel that i have no idea what i'm talking about.